We’ve all heard of pick up lines right? You know those magical lines that when you use them have a woman just falling all over herself to go home with you. You know that’s not going to happen. The problem is that I’ve never heard one that wasn’t more of a joke than a real way to meet women.
I mean if you actually said something like: “If I said you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me.” “If I said you were an angel would you treat me like the devil tonight.” “You might be asked to leave soon. You’re making the other women look bad.”
Yeah right that’s going to work out great. Are these lines funny? Well yes in the same way a one line joke is funny. By the way these were the best lines I’d heard, because most pick up lines just SUCK.
I mean after you’ve trotted out your lame line, and if she’s polite she actually laughed, what do you do now? What do you say next?
You might ask, are there any pick up line that work? Well yes some actually do work but they’re not exactly what most guys would think of as pick up lines.
Most lines are just a crutch anyway. I mean if she tells you to get lost when you give her your best line, she’s not rejecting you she’s rejecting the line. Sounds crazy but it’s the truth.
What you really need is something easy that you can start a conversation with an opener.
Here’s a big secret about women that you need to know. It doesn’t matter what you first say to her as long as it’s not really stupid or nasty. What matters is what you say after she responds.
What you say next is going to be more important than your opener. It’s going to tell her why you’re there talking to her. How much confidence you have, and whether or not she would be interested in getting to know you better. After all you could have rehearsed your opener for weeks or gotten it online.
That’s why I like to walk up and say Hey! My name is Wayne. How are you doing? Then I like to ask her opinion on something. When I’m asking her opinion I’m also telling her a short story that gives her the details of the question, makes it interesting, and tells her why I want the answer. Her response to the question will also tell me whether it’s worth my time to get to know her better or if I should move on.
As you can see pick up lines don’t work and are just a crutch that tells her you’ve nothing better to say than a memorized line. If you need something to say use an opener instead and then ask her opinion on something. This will show your confidence and ability to talk to her or anyone else for that matter.
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