How are you going to find love? A lot of dating coaches try to get you to change who you are. They try to change you into something you are not in order to get the woman of your dreams. No matter how hard you try this just doesn’t seem to work.
Your friends and family will try to help you out by telling you to just be yourself. If the woman doesn’t like you for yourself then you don’t need her. She’s probably not right for you anyway. That’s nice but the scoreboard tells a different story.
In order to change this you have to change the score. You have to change the way you present yourself. You have to change the way you view attraction, women, and especially yourself. Don’t change into something you’re not. Become the best version of you that’s possible to be.
Friends and family still care for you even if you don’t find a single woman. That’s great and you know they love you and want the best for you. They just don’t have the first clue as to what to do to find love. They don’t know how to tell you how to get over your fear of approach. They don’t know how you’re supposed to talk to her. They don’t know what to tell you to say to her. If you can’t approach and talk to her how are you going to get to know each other? How do you tell if she likes you? They can’t help you to have confidence in yourself. Another word they can’t get you to the next level.
Most people don’t like change. They don’t like being in uncomfortable situations and are afraid of doing what it takes to become good at social interaction. They are content with the way things are. They don’t want and are afraid of others changing around them. They will try to stop you from implementing any necessary changes because they want you to stay the same. They are comfortable with the way it is and the way you are.
Your friends and loved ones will always support you in the end. However you will have to make the journey apart from them. You’ll have to make the changes on your own. If you don’t accept this you will never make the changes you need to and you will probably fail to find love.
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